Negotiation
How clients can ask for services not on the menu
It’s common to want something not shown on a profile. Send a Booking Request to ask politely, start a Negotiation, and—if you both agree—receive a clear, provider‑approved Proposal.
Applies to: Escort Service, Private Sex, Kink & Fetish, Adult Media Talent, Erotic Show & Performance, Booth Babes & Promotion, Care & Companionship
Quick answer
Clients can request services not listed on a menu by submitting a respectful Booking Request that opens a Negotiation. The provider remains in full control and may ask clarifying questions, suggest listed alternatives, add Extras or Outfit options, set timing, pricing, and conditions, or decline. If both parties align, the provider can send a clear Proposal; only approved terms may become a Booking.
Overview
Path: Discovery → Booking Request (with your custom idea) → Negotiation → Proposal → Booking. A Booking Request is not a confirmed booking—it starts a conversation. Providers stay in full control: they can request clarification, propose safer or better‑fitting formats, set timing, pricing, deposits, or verification, and they may decline at any point. Your role is to be clear without explicit detail, share timing and location context, note comfort needs, and invite the provider to suggest alternatives. Privacy and discretion apply throughout, and negotiation is a normal way to align expectations, logistics, and boundaries.
How a custom request works
Send a Booking Request to start a respectful Negotiation.
- A Booking Request starts a conversation, not a commitment.
- Providers review, clarify, and decide whether to proceed.
- If you both agree, you’ll get a clear Proposal before any Booking.
What to include (without explicit detail)
Clarity helps providers assess safety, fit, and logistics.
- Brief context and desired outcome—keep wording discreet and professional.
- Preferred timing/duration and location (incall/outcall, city/region).
- Relevant Extras or Outfit options, comfort notes, and your willingness to adjust.
Negotiation, pricing, and timing
Expect clarifications, alternatives, and clear terms.
- Custom services may cost more and need lead time.
- Deposits or verification may be requested in the Proposal.
- It’s fine to decline or move on respectfully if it’s not a fit.
Common questions
Yes. Send a Booking Request with a discreet description to start a Negotiation. The provider may ask questions, propose terms, or decline.
Use professional language to describe the context, desired outcome, timing, and location. Avoid graphic detail and invite the provider to suggest safer formats or alternatives.
Share timing and duration, location context, any relevant Extras or Outfit options shown on the profile, comfort notes (e.g., allergies, accessibility), and how flexible you are.
You can discuss terms, but custom services often cost more because of preparation and complexity. Focus on clarity and fit, not hard bargaining.
Yes. Requests and negotiations happen within privacy-aware platform workflows. Keep communication on-platform unless the provider asks otherwise.
It may be outside their boundaries, timing, region, or comfort. Providers can decline at any time and are not obliged to continue.
More lead time increases the chance of a good fit—especially for complex or longer sessions. Last-minute custom requests are harder to arrange.
Avoid mass messaging. Build a small, relevant shortlist and tailor each request. Mass identical pitches reduce quality and harm trust.
Final thoughts
A respectful, clear request helps providers assess fit and respond with confidence. If the answer is no, thank them and move on—there may be a safer variation or a better match elsewhere.
Read next
- Using Extras and Outfit Options (Booking Process)
- How Provider Onboarding Works (For Providers)
- How to Accept, Decline, or Approve Bookings (For Providers)
- How to Activate and Deactivate Billboards (For Providers)
- How AI‑assisted onboarding works (For Providers)
