Booking Process

Clients submit a Booking Request with a short, respectful note. Providers review fit and use structured questions to clarify. The provider then issues a Proposal covering scope, boundaries, timing, price, verification, and policies. The client can accept, ask for a...

Flexible requests show intent without locking every detail. Providers review and reply on their terms—ask questions, suggest times, or send a Proposal. A booking exists only after you accept a Proposal.

Sending the first message can feel awkward. Providers need clarity and control. Paramour’s messaging makes first contact purposeful, supports screening and boundaries, and keeps everything calm and discreet. The goal is fewer, better conversations that lead to safer, clearer bookings.

A booking request starts a negotiation, not a booking. Providers review the details, ask questions, and may send a formal, time‑limited proposal (offer) with exact terms. Clients can accept, ask for edits, or decline. Accepted proposals become bookings. Proposals can...

Clients use Booking Requests to show clear intent—who, when, where, and what—so providers can review and choose the next step. Providers stay in full control and can accept, adjust, ask questions, or decline. Clear boundaries, privacy-first design, and a respectful...

Negotiations turn interest into clear, consent-based terms. Providers keep control of availability, boundaries, and acceptance. Clients gain clarity on timing, scope, and price. Inside a Negotiation, Proposals capture the agreed terms; accepting one creates a Booking. If comfort isn’t reached,...