Provider Controls
Service Boundaries and Restrictions on Paramour
Service boundaries and restrictions are your rules for what you offer, how you offer it, and under what conditions. They make consent explicit, set expectations, and reduce risk for both sides.
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Quick answer
Paramour lets providers set clear boundaries in their profile, service menu, availability, and safety/privacy settings. Hard boundaries (like safety rules or absolute “not offered” items) are non-negotiable; soft boundaries (like certain custom requests or travel) can be considered case-by-case. Discovery uses these rules to match the right clients, booking requests must acknowledge them, and final bookings document the agreed terms. If a boundary is breached or comfort changes, providers can pause, decline, block, or report.
Overview
Boundaries turn vague interest into clear, consent‑based terms. They live in your house rules and etiquette, your service menu (what’s offered, optional extras, and what is not offered), your availability windows and lead times, and your safety/privacy preferences. Payment rules like deposits or cancellation windows apply only where enabled and clearly communicated. Discovery and AI use your rules to interpret client intent and reduce mismatched outreach. Booking requests acknowledge your boundaries, proposals record any clarifications, and bookings finalize the agreement. If a boundary is crossed or your comfort changes, you can step back and use safety tools. You can adjust boundaries over time; updates apply going forward.
Set once, surface everywhere
Set your house rules, service scope, availability, and safety/privacy preferences once in your profile and service menu. Clients see aligned options before they reach out.
Discovery that respects limits
AI-assisted matching and filters guide clients to providers whose stated boundaries fit their intent, so mismatched requests are less likely.
Negotiation to booking, documented
Use negotiation to clarify grey areas, capture terms in a proposal when needed, and confirm them in the booking so everyone knows what to expect.
Common questions
Add it to “not offered” in your service menu or turn those options off completely. Items marked as hard limits are non‑negotiable and will be filtered out in discovery.
Yes. You can update your profile rules at any time. For an active request, explain the change in negotiation or add it to a proposal so the client can agree before confirmation.
Discovery reduces most mismatches. If an off‑limit request arrives, you can decline, suggest an aligned alternative, or block/report if pressure continues.
Yes. Key boundaries appear in your profile information and service listings. Discovery then surfaces providers whose stated rules align with the client’s intent.
Where enabled, yes. State deposits, screening, or verification requirements in your profile and proposal. Terms must be clear before confirmation.
Hard limits are not up for negotiation. Restate your rule, decline the request, and use blocking and reporting tools if pressure continues.
Pause and realign. Update terms in messaging or create a new proposal before continuing. If you cannot agree, the stated cancellation or change policies apply.
Use the in‑platform block and report tools from the conversation or profile. This stops further contact and flags the behavior for review.
Final thoughts
Clarity is a safety feature, not red tape. Set clear rules, let discovery work for you, confirm terms in bookings, and use enforcement tools when needed. Boundaries protect your autonomy, consent, and a professional experience for everyone.
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