How to Report Problematic Client Behavior

Overview

Open any active negotiation or booking request to Report: choose the reason(s), add relevant context, and submit. You can also Block to stop future contact immediately. If you feel unsafe, disengage and contact local authorities—Paramour is not an emergency service. Share only what is necessary, prioritize on‑platform messages, and do not redistribute unlawful media. Reporting creates a private moderation ticket, sends you an acknowledgment with a reference ID, and may lead to actions such as warnings, verification checks, account limits, suspensions, or removal. Blocking also protects discoverability: the blocked client cannot reach you through billboards or booking tunnels. Reports do not harm your ranking. Most cases receive follow‑up within 1–3 business days, with optional updates and a path to appeal.

When to use Block vs Report (and doing both)

Use Block to end contact now; use Report to help moderation address risk patterns. You can do both together.

• Immediate safety triage: If you feel in danger, disengage, leave the situation, and contact local authorities. Paramour is not an emergency service.
• How to Block and Report during a negotiation: Tap Report → choose reason(s) → add details → submit. Optionally select Block Client to stop contact.
• From a client profile (if accessible): Open the profile → choose Block or Report.
• Off-platform issues tied to your listing or a moved negotiation: Go to Help/Support → create a report → include links to the related negotiation or listing and only the necessary evidence.
• Choose one or more reasons: harassment/abuse; boundary violations after a decline; coercion/threats; impersonation/identity misuse; fraud or scam attempts; unsafe logistics; hate speech/discrimination; doxxing/privacy threats; suspected underage content; pressure to unsafe channels or to share sensitive documents.
• Evidence guidelines: Prefer on‑platform messages; include dates/times and relevant context; preserve but do not redistribute unlawful media; submit only what is necessary; keep off‑platform evidence available if requested.

What happens after you report

Moderation reviews privately, minimizes data use, and applies outcomes based on the case.

• You receive an acknowledgment and reference ID shortly after submission.
• Typical moderation follow‑up occurs within 1–3 business days; timing depends on severity and available evidence. You can opt in or out of additional updates.
• Possible outcomes: warning, verification review, account limits, temporary suspension, permanent removal, region‑based restrictions, or no action if unsubstantiated.
• Reporting usually closes the negotiation; if you also Blocked, further contact is prevented.
• Discoverability: Blocking removes your visibility to that client; reporting supports trust signals without harming your overall visibility or ranking.
• Pattern detection: Moderation monitors evasion or repeat‑pattern behavior and may take broader action.
• Misuse policy: Good‑faith reports are encouraged; deliberate false or retaliatory reports may lead to account action.
• Appeals: You may request a review or appeal a moderation outcome when needed.
• Privacy and data handling: Reports are private, reviewed on a need‑to‑know basis, and your identity is not shared with the reported party. Legal requests are handled per applicable law with privacy‑preserving practices.

Final thoughts

Reporting is a form of community care. Use Block to protect your space immediately and Report to help reduce harm across the ecosystem. Share only what’s necessary, expect a private review, and know your visibility remains intact.