Bookings
How to Accept, Decline, or Approve Bookings
Learn exactly when a request becomes a confirmed booking, how to accept or decline with confidence, and how to keep every agreement clear, safe, and on‑platform.
Applies to: Escort Service, Private Sex, Kink & Fetish, Adult Media Talent, Erotic Show & Performance, Booth Babes & Promotion, Care & Companionship
Quick answer
In Paramour, a Booking Request is not a booking—it’s an inquiry. A booking is created only when a proposal with clear, final terms is accepted (Approve/Accept) so both sides agree to the same version. If details are already clear, you can move quickly by sending or approving a matching proposal. If not, negotiate within the thread until everything is clear, then confirm by accepting the proposal. Use Decline to close out respectfully when it’s not a fit. Confirmed bookings should block your calendar; declined or expired requests should not.
Overview
A Booking Request is not a booking. It shows interest and shares basic details. Use negotiation to clarify timing, location, boundaries, and price. When everything is clear, create or review a proposal. Accepting or approving a proposal turns it into a confirmed booking—only then should the time be treated as reserved. If the fit isn’t right or details stay unclear, decline respectfully. Keep all key terms inside the same thread for clarity, trust, and support context.
You stay in control
Accept, negotiate, or decline on your schedule. It’s normal to ask questions or adjust terms before you confirm.
Proposals create bookings
A booking is confirmed only when both sides accept the same proposal with clear, final terms.
Clarity before commitment
Include timing, location, services, rate, and conditions in the proposal. Decline gracefully if it’s not a fit.
Common questions
Only accepting or approving a proposal creates a confirmed booking. A yes in chat does not confirm anything unless the proposal is accepted.
Yes. You may decline any request without explaining. A brief, respectful note is optional.
Edit the terms and send a new proposal within the negotiation thread. The booking is created only when that proposal is accepted.
Confirmed bookings should block the relevant time to prevent conflicts. Declined or expired requests should not block time.
Keep the proposal concise, confirm logistics and arrival windows explicitly, and accept only when terms are clear and you are comfortable.
Treat changes as a new proposal in the same thread. Avoid informal changes that are not captured in the negotiation.
They see that the request is declined. You may include a short note or alternative times if you choose.
No, but timely responses improve matching quality. If a proposal goes unanswered, you can send one reminder and then let it expire or close the thread.
Final thoughts
Move at your pace: negotiate for clarity, accept to confirm, or decline when it’s not a fit. Keeping terms on‑platform builds trust, reduces misunderstandings, and protects your time.
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